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David Obuchowski
davidobuchowski

I finally got to sit down and listen to this and jesus fuck. What the hell is wrong with men who think it’s okay to write/say this shit. Thank you for all the contributors for doing this, for continuing to do your jobs in the face of this, and especially the bits where you half laughed at some of the utter Read more

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The first season of Tempest was one of my favorite listens but I somehow missed season two coming out so I greatly appreciate this. I’m sure this particular episode will be an exasperating listen as it always is when I hear women discuss getting treated like shit for being women, but given the hosts I know it’ll still Read more

So a weirdly unique thing about being transgender (and being stealth with it to a degree in real life and some social media) is that you have the opportunity to experience things on “both sides”. Read more

I have listened to this several times now, and each time is a new experience for me. You have woven together a difficult and intense story with a tenderness and sensitivity that gets deep into one’s heart and deep into the heart of the story itself. The fair and even hand you use in bringing to light the perspectives Read more

ANDREW.

FOLLOW UP OMG I FINISHED THE PODCAST. JEEEEEESUS.

As a Side note, Your wife is a saint (and badass) and thank you again for telling your story. You are also a badass. Best of luck and patience with your recovery, and thanks for getting me into the tempest podcast.

Also for real hope you know we all love your work Read more

David this IS your best podcast so far! I nearly cried myself, great job. And Andrew I had no idea this happened! Best of luck on your continued recovery. I’ve had multiple back surgeries so I can relate a bit. Read more

Thank you, Sydney, Andrew, and David.  Read more

What an incredibly brave and honest story. All participants are talented story-tellers, especially Andrew and Sydney. Their in-depth, often painful details were so moving. I commend both of you for your commitment to each other, experiencing the “in sickness and in health” part of your vows before you even spoke them. Read more

Wow, this brings back a lot of memories from my own ordeal. The thoughts and feelings are all so real. I’m writing this as I am listening and man it is hard.  Andrew, just know that with a lot of therapy you will get better.  I had only been married for 6 months when this happened to me (Harbor Freight grinding wheel Read more

I’m a scuba diver with over 100 dives under my belt, so of middling experience. During one dive, I lost track of my buddy for about 15 seconds; this is very bad diver behaviour, and 15 seconds is an eternity at depth. During that 15 seconds, his mask and regulator were kicked off by another diver; he panicked, and did Read more

Your story puts my deployments in Iraq and Afghanistan in perspective. Read more

It feels wrong to say that I hope you “enjoy” it. That doesn’t seem like the right word, given the true and difficult story this is. ... So I guess I’ll say that I hope you listen; and if you do that, I hope you find it compelling and moving. Read more

People seem to always forget that their life can change in the blink of an eye and not always for the good. Read more

Haven’t listened yet but I’m interested to hear when he calls you out. It’s one of the hardest things in life to call out a good friend for doing something “wrong”.  Read more

Being in Wyoming they had 4 highly trained elk, 2 moderately controllable moose and a surly bison on retainer. Read more

wedding days are sooo overrated Read more

I look forward to listening later tonight. I have to say just this line (below) kicked me in the gut a little as I recollect on why I don’t ride a motorcycle anymore, despite loving it intensely - “so you can hear how an accident at the most inopportune moment feels for the person who fucks up, and the person who has Read more

This is a story I’ve tried and failed to write many times. The closest I got was an Instagram post I tossed up to explain my absence from the internet Read more