Casual encounters are never as simple as they seem, and aerial refueling is no different. The way I have had this unique coupling act described to me more often than not, by pilots and "boomers" is as follows: "It is a LOT harder than it looks!"
You may want to turn up the Barry White, put out the chocolate covered strawberries and pour yourself a glass of fine red wine while watching, and remember "no kick-ass without tanker gas!"