In our house it's "Strawberry Quick" -- from one of those endless spouse-poisoning cases that are never not on tv--everyone but the victim--in this case, the wife--had figured out she only got deathly ill when her husband had access to her food--specifically, milk, which he told her she should drink all the time because she was losing weight (due to poison). She even reported seeing some pink, undissolved stuff in the bottom of the glass. He told her it was Nestle "Strawberry Quick" -- "'Cause I know you like that, honey" -- though apparently the milk didn't taste like Quick and wasn't pink. So now in our house, it's "Honey, can I get you something to drink? Some Strawberry Quick? I know you like that." or "Honey, this glass doesn't look clean." "Oh, that's just the Strawberry Quick."
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What I think is odd about this ad is, if it happens when no one is looking, what can I as an interested and concerned citizen do about it?
Sure everybody wants to stop male on female domestic abuse. But what about female on male abuse? Can you imagine having to admit to your friends that your wife is the one who broke your nose and not some mountain man on a harley like you originally said?
@RamblinReck89: If my sister had been a brother instead, I would be a very different person today. Because I would have been allowed to hit back. But I love her dearly, and am grateful for the patience and pain tolerance she has given me.
@smalleyxb122: Don't go there, I mean it is state that borders OH and that border sometimes strays as far north as Columbus it still does not make it right. I mean eewww.
@RamblinReck89: I'm not sure if that was an attempt at humour, so I'm going to assume you were being serious.
I worked as a counsellor at a university for a few years, and have a fair bit of experience with abusive relationships. At least here in Canada, there is a pretty impressive system in place with regards to spousal abuse, however it is extremely biased towards male-on-female abuse. This is fair enough, the vast majority of abuse is of this nature, however recent research (if I were at home, I'd post it) has shown that female-on-male abuse is much more prevalent than anyone suspected, even in their most generous estimates, because it simply never reported.
I have been witness to some remarkably abusive relationships; part of the problem is a mentality of "never hit a woman", as Krewson says below. I prefer a mentality of "never hit." I know of one guy who was regularly being physically, verbally, and mentally abused, but wouldn't fight back because he was much larger and knew that if he did anything physical, he'd seriously injure her.
Posters like this are a good start, but there needs to be much more of a cultural shift. Abuse is unacceptable, in any form, and the only solution is to walk away. Don't try and work it out, don't try and "fix them", don't be understanding and make excuses. Leave. Everything else will work itself out.
This Public Service message, brought to you by an overly-emotional Deartháir...
@Tossed Accordtaco salad over Malibu: "And hes ridin around in a CLK500 deisel... And he got some other mexican girl pregnant.. so.. she flattened his tires and peed on the interior.
This sounds like a man who has genuine experience in these matters...
@Tossed Accordtaco salad over Malibu: Governor. Of my state. Now, can we _please_ talk about something else, like, I dunno, how much California sucks or that MJ is dead? ;-)
@nightwatch: It's a joke. Almost all of your comments are negative on here. If this place is so horrible, why are you still here? I'm sure Autoblog would enjoy your company.
@Prawo Jazdy and The Painted Rotors.: "Painted Rotors" -- I just noticed that. You are throwing away perfectly fabulous band names here--you know that, don't you?
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What I think is odd about this ad is, if it happens when no one is looking, what can I as an interested and concerned citizen do about it?
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"Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun, you don't stare at it. It's too risky. You get a sense of it and then you look away."
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And now we trade licks if no one is looking.
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Thank God for context.
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I worked as a counsellor at a university for a few years, and have a fair bit of experience with abusive relationships. At least here in Canada, there is a pretty impressive system in place with regards to spousal abuse, however it is extremely biased towards male-on-female abuse. This is fair enough, the vast majority of abuse is of this nature, however recent research (if I were at home, I'd post it) has shown that female-on-male abuse is much more prevalent than anyone suspected, even in their most generous estimates, because it simply never reported.
I have been witness to some remarkably abusive relationships; part of the problem is a mentality of "never hit a woman", as Krewson says below. I prefer a mentality of "never hit." I know of one guy who was regularly being physically, verbally, and mentally abused, but wouldn't fight back because he was much larger and knew that if he did anything physical, he'd seriously injure her.
Posters like this are a good start, but there needs to be much more of a cultural shift. Abuse is unacceptable, in any form, and the only solution is to walk away. Don't try and work it out, don't try and "fix them", don't be understanding and make excuses. Leave. Everything else will work itself out.
This Public Service message, brought to you by an overly-emotional Deartháir...
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For all we know..
She drove a Opel Corsa from 20yrs ago...
And hes ridin around in a CLK500 deisel...
And he got some other mexican girl pregnant.. so.. she flattened his tires and peed on the interior.
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And he got some other mexican girl pregnant.. so.. she flattened his tires and peed on the interior.
This sounds like a man who has genuine experience in these matters...
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Yeah talk to Senator Mark Sanford...
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Go look up some statistics on Brazilian police brutality. It's pretty sobering stuff.
(this is Leeeeena, btw)
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lame, really lame
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Sometimes, if I'm not mad at how negative, ignorant, and just plain dumb people are, I read Autoblog comments. That usually fixes things.
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www.gminsidenews.com
There ya go.
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Call Becker or somebody and let them do the conversion.
I won't make any bus jokes- I've stirred the pot enough this week.